To establish a good and firm character within ourselves is something very difficult and troublesome, and one crisis can destroy what we have worked so hard to set right. Bad, worldly and disorderly company destroys good character. (John Climacus)

What I establish of my own effort alone will always be perishable. It may be beautiful, it may be good, it may even in some way be true. But if it is only my creation, it's essence will die with me, probably well before me.

What I establish together with another -- or many others -- is likely to be more long-lasting. The quality of the relationships involved in co-creating will amplify the effort of each. If each of us bring some good, our shared effort will be very, very good.

What we establish together with God will, likewise, take on aspects of divine character. Where I am weak, God will lend strength. Where I miss the mark, God will correct. Only in relationship with others and God can I co-create what is fully worthwhile.